Mom projects fears about her own competency onto Dad.
Mom told people Dad wasn't safe. Concerns about her own fitness and well-being lurk in the shadow of those lies. These are their truths.
Mom told people Dad wasn't safe. Concerns about her own fitness and well-being lurk in the shadow of those lies. These are their truths.
The Truth: Mom projected fears about her own competency onto Dad.
In March of 2020, Mom told her attorney at the time that leaving Evie alone with Dad, Grandma Linda, or even a court-appointed supervisor would be equivalent to "giving her up for adoption or signing her death warrant." She also insisted on being present at all of Dad's visits with Evie, despite court orders to the contrary. Mom's fear of losing Evie manifested itself into brutal accusations completely not founded in truth.
However, despite her allegations, Mom's own actions have presented safety concerns in the past.
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The Lie: Leaving Evie alone with Dad, Grandma Linda, or even a court-appointed supervisor would be equivalent to "giving her up for adoption or signing her death warrant."
The Truth: Mom bargained access to Evie for a house. She specifically noted that the "sooner you [buy] the house for Evie the sooner the visits can start," promising unlimited visits in 'Evie's' new pad as soon as they moved in, but not before.
There was never an issue with Dad and Evie spending time together, supervision was a way for Mom to have the restraining order dropped against her dropped and spend time with Dad.
The Lie: Mom told Dad she would "never affect you seeing Evie."
The Truth: Mom has put Evie in danger
In a Sworn Declaration from Evie's nanny in San Francisco, it was revealed that Mom dropped Evie during a psychotic episode.
Evie's nanny also noticed that she needed to visit the cardiologist. Mom initially refused to take Evie, using their baby's health as leverage in an argument with Dad.
Don't worry – Dad made sure Evie was immediately cared for and taken to the doctor where she was in need treatment for her heart.
Additionally, and without warning, Mom unexpectedly didn't come home one night. Evie was left alone with Grimma and Grumpa, and Mom got called out by her sister.
The Truth: Westchester Family Court gave credence to the questionability of Mom's competency as a mother by confining Mom to her parent's home – for Evie's safety.
The Truth: Mom intentionally kept Evie from Dad, afraid she would lose custody if her actions caught up with her.
Mom even considered fleeing with Evie when the court ordered a visit with Dad.
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