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A Brie Grows

Brie is a writer and art critic, who has chronicled her life and her family's history of abuse in her blog. Recently they made her take much of that down but it is preserved here.

"The Twins" react to family violence in a way that parallels Mom and Aunt Brie

"The Twins" react to family violence in a way that parallels Mom and Aunt Brie

"They grew up in the same household, with the same mother. They are not genetically the same as me, but their reactions to the abuse were identical."

Grumpa throws subpoenas into the trash; Rages at Aunt Brie to do the same

"They wanted to have a quorum so that they could scream at us for betraying the family. My family called me multiple times to scream at me that I didn’t know what I was talking about, I could just throw out the paperwork, and ignore the subpoena."

The Lies: The Walsh Family's pattern of dodging court

Legal threats and other retaliation from Mom sends Aunt Brie to Savannah, GA

"My sister has threatened me, and sent me legal actions letting me know her intention to sue me for defamation in court. She blames me for everything that has gone wrong in her life."

"Your a disgusting piece of shit"

"Mom got angry that Grimma and Grumpa offered Aunt Brie money to move closer to the family in Chappaqua."

Grumpa pretends to be a nice guy but quickly becomes enraged at any provocation

"This may get me in trouble, but I get my bad temper from my father"

Grimma punched me; Denied me food

"I had an abusive childhood, and abusive situations are what I crave."

Money and connections: Grumpa fancied best bond trader on Wall Street

"Men referred to me as my father’s daughter, and told me, to my disbelief and delight, that my father had been the top bond trader on all of Wall Street."

Aunt Brie was so fearful of provoking Grumpa's anger that she would pee the bed rather than disturb him at night

The Walsh parents apply an abusive level of control over their children and tell them their "bad behavior" is the reason they are so "strict" with them.

I don't want to be an abusive parent, a screamer, a hitter, or medicate my kids from the time they can sit on a toilet, like Grimma did

"I don't want to be an abusive parent. I don’t want to be a screamer, or a hitter. I don’t want Cleo to have an eating disorder, or a complex, or be medicated from the time she can pee in an adult toilet."

Grumpa struggles with uncontrollable rage; Anger Management

Aunt Brie struggles to suppress her own anger that she gets from Grumpa. "Because sometimes I do lose my temper, I act lesser than, I let my worst self get the best of me, I can also be a fucking asshole. Especially via text message. Every day, I struggle

I could write a book about that

"Quickly, she decided that I couldn’t write a book if I made her look like shit, and even quicker, she decided it need to be fiction."

Eye gouged out and beaten by a belt; Legacy of abuse in the Walsh family

Maura Walsh comes from a very violent family. Her own mother was blinded as a young girl while being beaten with a belt.

Over-medicated? Or a family history of mental illness?

Grimma would suggest Aunt Brie should think twice about having children given the history of mental illness in their family, but Aunt Brie wonders if they weren't just over-medicated.

Well-behaved in public, home life was a 'horror movie'

"My siblings and I were very well behaved in public, but our house in private was basically like a horror movie"

You will be an alcoholic, lectures Grimma

"Mother told me, from a very young age, that I would likely be an alcoholic due to our genetics"

Grumpa sold junk bonds; Convicted of financial fraud

Grumpa Walsh sold Junk Bonds on Wall Street with Michael Milken at Drexel, Burnham, Lambert. Later he sold Mortgage Backed Securities, before that crashed too. According to Aunt Brie, he knew better than to buy them himself.

CPS called on Grimma and Grumpa over 35 times; An act that's never been forgiven

The abuse was so extreme that Mom even sued her parents for emancipation as a teenager.

Grimma hits children; Aunt Brie vows to be different

Aunt Brie contemplates how to 'diffuse' her anger rather than hitting her daughter. She strives to be a good mother and vows to be different.

If you piss Grimma off she will ice you out of her life forever

"My mother, on the other hand, has a very slow, enduring temper, and if you piss her off, she will ice you out of her life forever"

A writer writes: Aunt Brie's blog contrasts Grumpa's sense of failure, he wanted to be a writer his whole life

"My father has wanted to be a writer his whole life although he never writes; I am my father’s daughter."

Mom wrapped herself in a blanket and threw herself down the stairs when she didn't get a hamster for her birthday

"My sister has been threatening not to come to her own birthday parties ever since she asked for a hamster for her 8th birthday. When she didn’t get one, she wrapped herself in a blanket, and threw herself down the stairs."

Aunt Brie to Mom; I think you have Borderline Personality Disorder

Aunt Brie texts Mom, "Ru awake? I want to tell you about this therapist... I think it could help you too. U prob hve tinge of borderline personality from childhood trauma. Seriously call me tomorrow about work too"

Estranged: The only time Mom and Dad saw Grimma and Grumpa in their three years dating

Mom's family was on their best behavior when Mom brought Dad home to meet them.

Grumpa never speaks of his role in the two largest financial collapses of our lifetime; Blames everyone else for his greed

Grumpa met Michael Milken and went from a one bedroom apartment in the Bronx to a Westchester mansion down the street from the Clintons.

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